185: Use Your Voice

“You’re the only one in this place that has a voice and uses it.”

I am a self proclaimed asshole. It seems to be less offensive than calling myself a bitch. People tend to get more offended by that term. Essentially what I mean when I say I’m an asshole is – I’m brutally honest and people don’t like it. That mom that keeps trying to come into your life to tell you how much of a disappointment you are is toxic AF and you should block her. Cut ties and never look back. You deserve so much better. That borderline abusive narcissistic ex of yours that is asking for a favor is just trying to rope you back in. Hunny he is toxic and dead set on destroying that tiny bit of confidence and self worth you have left. He doesn’t want to see you happy and you deserve someone that sees you as the sun and the moon. You get the picture – I’m honest and I don’t take no bullshit. Take it or leave it.


That being said, someone once told me I’m the only one that has a voice and uses it. At the time I didn’t understand what that meant. I figured it was because I’m brutally honest and an asshole. That’s not what they meant at all. I use my voice for good. I tell it like it is. My honesty and no BS approach is effective. It makes people realize the things that they’ve been blind to or ignoring. It gets things going and stuff gets done. They wanted me to keep being me and use my words for good. I’ll be honest, it took me way longer than it should have to realize what they meant, but I’m glad I figured it out.

What’s the point…..keep being a strong, powerful force to be reckoned with. You are not a bitch or an asshole, you’re an asset. You are making moves that so many other people are too scared to make. You are saying things that others wouldn’t dare. There will be people that are going to love you for you, even if what you have to say isn’t what they want to hear. And there will be people that think you are a horrible person because who would dare to be honest like that. No matter what people have to say about you or who doesn’t like you, keep being you. Keep being honest. Keep making others be honest. Keep being a force to reckon with.


Do you boo. Be honest. Be real. Stand up for yourself. Stand up for others. Never back down. You are amazing. You are smart. You are worthy. Confidence radiates off you. Stay beautiful. I love you boo.

Published by Ky

I'm a mom of 2 beautiful kiddos. I love to write and was inspired by a close friend to interview moms and share the good, the bad, and the ugly of motherhood. Email us to share your good, bad, sad, inspiring, or funny story. You may just be featured on our blog and Facebook page.

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